Discovery Dating: Its not just about dating!
Discovery Dating is a method, or a ‘formula’, that can be used to discover important information about yourself and others with whom you have key relationships.
You can determine whether you are moving forward in a situation that supports your values, safety and goals or whether you are wedging yourself more deeply into situations that have greater chances of conflict, harms, and disappointment.
You can check your own values and goals according to your actual behavior patterns.
Young People, Old People, In-Between People, Parents, Kids, Elders, Youth, Adults, Aunties & Uncles, Teenagers, Beginners, Experts, Mentors, Students, Guides, Families, Siblings, Cousins, Children, Teachers, Role Models, Learners, Grown-ups, The Young at Heart, Communities, Grandparents…
People who wonder “How can I be a better person?”
People who think “I want healthier relationships in my life.”
People who say “I want a better way for my kids.”
Mentors help guide us and make important decisions. Discovery Dating will help you identify key mentors in your life and build stronger relationships with them.
Beginning with the end in mind, we first decide on what our goals are for the short, mid and long term future. We write down steps, and think of barriers that might block us from getting our goals. We also think about who else might benefit if we get our goals.
Based on a deck of cards, we talk about all different areas of life, like:
We use special Diary Sheets to keep track of information and facts about important people in our lives. These facts and information must be carefully considered over a long period of time.
We use Pyramid Sheets to figure out if our life goals and values align with other people. Then we can make informed choices about our boundaries and about decisions that have a permanent impact on our life.